Practical Philosophy
I have experienced firsthand that philosophical theories, when translated into tangible actions, can bring you a lot in life. A bit over a year ago, I was living in the Netherlands, and I wasn’t very happy with the life I had built for myself. Sure, I had good friends, a loving family, a nice home, and a fulfilling job, but still, I felt stuck. I spent a lot of time back then trying to figure out why I felt this way, as by all the standards I had set for myself, I had supposedly made it. It was around that time that I first started learning about Marcus Aurelius, the Stoic Roman emperor.
Stoic philosophy might be one of the best things you can stumble upon when you’re feeling stuck in life. The Stoics will tell you to stop feeling sorry for yourself, focus on what you can control, and challenge yourself. It was the words of Aurelius that made me realize why I was stuck: I wasn’t challenging myself. I was all set—I had graduated from university, I had a steady job, and a nice (albeit expensive) studio apartment near my friends and family. But I wasn’t happy.
It was time for change—for what can exist without it, as Aurelius told me. Meanwhile, Seneca, another Stoic, explained to me that “A gem cannot be polished without friction, nor a man perfected without trials.” But while this sounded good, how does this translate into action? Again, a Stoic philosopher—this time by the name of Epictetus—gave me the answer: “First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do.”
So I decided to challenge myself and do something I had always dreamt of—moving abroad. I hatched my plan, booked a flight to the UK, canceled my lease, and waved goodbye to friends and family. If that isn’t a show of practical philosophy, I don’t know what is.